Aunt Jay was a very sweet, caring, person. She hated mornings, loved coffee, and made sure that we mopped the floor every nite after dinner. She was frugal, and taught me the wisdom of shopping at garage sales and rummage sales. A "sport" that I enjoy even now. She was generous in sharing her best recipes, and was excellent at making folks feel right at home. She was creative, and even wrote at least one piece of music, that she played on her piano, and I try to play it, when ever I can. She loved to listen to me sing and play folk music on my guitar in the evening, and encouraged me to be one of the many folk guitarists at her church. I remember the Saturday game that she invented..sort of like musical chairs, except you'd have to clean part of the bathroom and when the music stopped you'd trade places with her, Karen, or Barb and start to clean in a different room. I wonder if that bit of Saturday fun got passed down to anyone else. I thank Uncle Ed, Aunt Jay, Karen and Barb for introducing me to all of the family, and explaining who was who. I am grateful that any suffering she experienced is over, and that her spirit will live on in so many others. Love to all.